Valiant Man

Valiant Man

Valiant Man

A programme designed to restore and fortify the sexual integrity and spiritual vitality of men.

As men we live in a highly sexualised porn-saturated culture, where the pressure to fall victim to a distorted vision of male sexuality is extremely pervasive and intense. Falling prey to a distorted sexuality can have profound and lasting harms for our marriage, our family and our own personal well being.

Valiant Man is a programme created by Dr Allen Meyer that is specifically designed to respond to these pressures, in order to restore and strengthen the sexual integrity and spiritual vitality of men.

If you’re someone who is serious about addressing the sexual struggles in your life, or you’re a Christian leader who wants to equip the men in your church with effective tools and strategies to live out an authentic, Christ-centred and life-giving male sexuality, then Valiant Man is definitely the programme for you!

Valiant Man is a 10 session programme (usually run over ten weeks) for males over the age of 16 which explores the following topics:

Participant Feedback

"Thank you for helping me as a man understand why the struggles I've always dealt with I couldn't beat alone.  To understand the root of these things and to have the tools to now be victorious makes me so much happier and at peace with myself."
Excellent course, very grateful to get a logical/mental understanding of a physical challenge.  This course is a must for all men."

Session Information:

    A Vision for Manhood

    The aim of this session is to plant the seeds of vision for a better future, a vision for Valiant Manhood, while undertaking a rigorous moral inventory of current reality.


    The Arena of Healing

    This session aims to introduce participants to the mind and heart attitudes necessary for growth and change to occur, and it introduces the Arena of Healing which provides a visual image to help participants identify the healing process.


    The Sexual Man

    The aim of this session is to provide participants with information about the construction of male sexuality with a view to helping men normalise their experience of their own male sexuality and begin to appreciate the issues involved in sucessfully managing male sexuality.


    The Origin, Power and Purpose of Sex

    The aim of this session is to provide men with a theology of sex which introduces them to the deepest issues of our sexuality, which go beyond biology and psychology to the character of God and his ultimate purpose.


    The Cycle of Addiction

    The aim of this session is to explain the cycle of addiction from a behavioural and bio-chemical point of view. The purpose is to help men understand the dynamics of addictive sexual behaviour so they can better appreciate the choices they must make if they intend to make permanent changes.


    The Understanding Man

    The aim of this session is to give men insight into the differences between mail and female sexuality with a view to increasing their capacity to be understanding husbands and lovers.


    Retraining Your Brain

    This session aims to provide an understanding to men of how thought processes are established in the brain with a view to learning a workable process for bringing thoughts under control.


    Taking a Stand

    This session prepares the men for a time of prayer and consecration, as they take a stand against shame, fantasy, pornography and inappropriate sexual behaviours.


    Guarding Your Heart

    This session teaches men principles that will help them maintain sexual integrity as they grow in sexual purity.

    Realistic Expectations

    This session reviews the ground covered over the previous nine sessions and assists men to prepare for a realistic view of the challenges they will face as they leave the course. Strategies for ongoing success will be explained.