Serving as a Family
A few nights ago, I read my three kids a bedtime story about a missionary who spent 30 years of his life serving in Nepal. I realized it wasn't much of a lull-them-to-sleep story, though, as I fielded excited questions and enthusiastic interest.
How will God use my children to build His kingdom? I wondered. Will they serve Him overseas, immersed in a foreign culture? Will they remain in North America, shining as lights in a secular workplace? Whatever their futures hold, how can I help mold them into world changers?
As I pondered the latter question, one thought came swift and clear: Teach them to think beyond themselves and their own needs. World changers, like the storyteller, follow Christ's example through service. They practice kindness and are willing to sacrifice convenience and comfort for another's sake.
Serving right where we were
I soon discovered that countless service opportunities surrounded our family, albeit on a simple scale:
- When missionary families on furlough stayed with us, our kids shared their bedrooms with the children.
- We provided transportation to Sunday school and midweek kids' club for children who wanted to attend but whose parents couldn't take them.
- We invited friends to invade our lakefront home, on scorching summer days.
- We delivered meals and drove one pregnant woman's children to school when she was ordered to bed rest.
- When an acquaintance's husband deserted her, we invited her family for dinners and table games.
- We purchased fabric and sewed a dress for a girl whose single mom couldn't afford to buy her one.